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This is where I have been focusing for the past whiles… I haven’t felt this excited about pornography since, well, I can’t really remember. Anyways, it’s really fucking good and you should look at it. Like, now.

A Sensate Films and Feck collaboration: Gentleman Handling.



“What we’ve made here, really, is a lovely place to watch moving images of male masturbation. GentlemanHandling attempts to strip the image of male sexual pleasure from its less-than-savoury pornographic contexts and situate it in a style of imagemaking that is honest, attentive, and reverent. In our years of experience in the pornosphere, we’ve found that men have just as much to lose as other genders from the dishonesty and superficiality of mass-produced sexual imagery. So we’ve taken up the project of presenting our contributors in a manner that highlights their human-ness, their individual sexual style. Self-pleasure is a deeply personal thing and is often glossed over or neglected in mainstream sexual media. We’re trying to take steps to change that.”

So this site, booking of shoots, people managing, learning new production/set-up/lighting skills and on occasion creatively collaborating has been a part of my world/job/life for many months now. I have been sitting on the knowledge that this beautiful space would hopefully soon, or rather eventually, come to fruition and here it is. I nearly burst at the seams keeping this secret, that’s for sure.

In super awesome and exciting news, I am also a regular contributor on the Gentleman Handling blog: Hyperballad’s Tangenitals. Please go say hi sometime, I’d very much appreciate it.

I am working with two totally amazing women on GMH, together they came up with the concept of this project and made it happen. They have formed their own company Sensate Films and will continue making Slow Porn til the end of days and sexy-times. What is Slow Porn, you ask?

“The mass-production mentality of the adult industry draws producers into its ‘more, faster!’ mindset and mode of production. This often sacrifices both the quality of the product and the experience of its creation. Our response to this is to slow down. This gives us the time and presence to pay attention to those details that the mainstream so often misses; the quality of a breath, the words in a whisper. It gives our contributors the time to make choices about their representation, and also to take their time, to indulge themselves, to respond to the process of being documented.”

I love the awesome ladies I work for/with, I love the GMH site, I love the gorgeous men we work with and I love the amazing revelations this project continues to uncover in regards to masculinity and male sexuality for me. Every day, every shoot and every contributor holds something new to be learnt.

So for the love of the mans, go have a look at this space and if you like what you see, please join and support the continuation of the smart and sexy porno contained there-in.

Go visit these guys here: Dodson and Ross

Today I popped my Kickstarter cherry.  It was a small contribution, but a meaningful one.

Check it out, I think a lot of people would want to hear this story and hopefully help out to fund this documentary. I think it’s really important for information to be shared about the sex industry and exactly how the lines get blurred when you’re out there, doing this sort of thing. I can relate and one day soon I aim to be able to write about and share my own story. This film gives me courage, it gives these women a voice and it shares information for everyone.

License to Pimp – Kickstarter

What would you do if the strip club you worked at became a brothel?

Would you adapt to it, fight it, or quit?  

License to Pimp is a feature documentary about the choices that three San Francisco strippers make as their workplaces engage in illegal labor practices.  Strip clubs refuse to pay strippers even minimum wages & actually charge them for the privilege to work.  I worked in half of San Francisco’s strip clubs during the 1990s and witnessed their transformation into brothels as a result of these fees.  Now as a filmmaker, I uncover current working conditions & try to find out how strip clubs are able to operate outside the law.

 

I’m also thinking about putting up a widget for the week of the project. If you support this project as well, please share it on your blog/twitter/facebook.

Thanks in advance for helping! xx

Last night I went to a launch party and had an absolute blast.

Brilliant people to talk to, engaging and amusing entertainment, an endless supply of drinks and snacks and a wonderfully slutty dress that arrived in the post, just in time!

I had the pleasure of having an extended conversation and hang out with a truly awesome lady, Angela White. Who I know, but hadn’t had an opportunity to really have a proper chat with, prior to last evenings festivities.

So many topics discussed. So many laughs had. Angela happily let me ask ALL the questions about camming, the ever mysterious twitter (I will get the hang of it one day!) and was generally extremely tolerant of my general drunken ramblings. I may or may not also have been totally mesmerised by her purple sparkly leggings. Most of all I was really struck how despite her fame and enormous fan-base she is so fucking genuine and nice and down to earth. She gave me loads of extremely helpful advice and information, offered support regarding getting into cam-work and is just bloody lovely.

I feel a great deal of admiration for her attitude and hard-work. A classy and totally self-made lady.

Heres to awesome, Aussie boobie shaped ❤

Image source: Angela White’s Tumblr

Go hit her up on twitter too: @AngelaWhiteXXX

I submitted an image of myself to the hairy pits club.

As I realised it’s my 3 year body-hair anniversary! I shaved my pits once for a pole competition about 18 months ago and immediately regretted it, I grew all my hair straight back out afterwards. However, my beautiful bush remains untouched.

Just recently a friend linked through to a rather great post about body hair also. It’s so much win that there is loads of pro-pubes people out there, being active and making themselves and their right to make their own choices heard. Check it out: Hair (not the musical).

Am currently thinking up some hair-esque photos to share here to celebrate, stay tuned.

x

Genius!

Susannah Breslin creator of the letters project has created a new blog in this series, Letters From Men Who Go To Strip Clubs

Lifted from her blog post on this particular project:

“I like doing The Letters Project for several reasons. Because it’s self-directed. Because it gives me and others a window into a mindset that may not otherwise be revealed. Because I think confessions are a sort of fascinating, dynamic genre. Because with every year that passes for me as a journalist, I believe more and more that the only way someone can understand something is by listening to a cacophony of voices. This is that cacophony.”

I personally find these projects deeply fascinating. I work every day in the ‘confessions’ business, it’s my job to get you tell me things and secret things and personal things. The people I speak to personally also fascinate me. I think a space for anonymous confessions are extremely useful and insightful.

Sadly, as a female my input isn’t required for this project. I entertained the thought of writing a submission and sending it anyways, but I have such little time to write, I think it’s better to invest that energy into making things that will be seen. I think it also would have made me feel like somewhat of a petulant child. Also, the lady in question does clearly state she is only interested in hearing from males.

I respect this lady and the things she does, I think they are important things – so if you are male and have been to a strip club or continue to do so, please consider taking the time to write a submission on your experiences and motivations.

On a slightly related topic, you may also be interested in her self published piece regarding ‘Porn Valley’ and the often strange creatures that inhabit and exhibit in these spaces They Shoot Porn Stars Don’t They

I am really hoping that a tentative offer to attend this totally amazing space does eventuate for me: Sex Camp

When the opportunity initially presented itself I had heard very little about it, except in passing. I am definitely super wary of things that are potentially contact based sex and sexuality workshops – I think there are SO many elements to providing a safe space for sexual exploration and basically I don’t want *anyone* touching me that I haven’t explicitly consented to.

Although one of the first things the site addresses is motivation for attending, that’s it’s not 2 day camping orgy and that the workshops etc are non-contact.

I spent a whole night looking at the site with my partner, reading and delving into the ideas and ethos and the errr, facebook group too. (sometimes facebook feels like such a dirty word)

I am sold. It looks like it will be a beautiful space, an incredibly healing space and the kind of space that would be extremely helpful for me at the moment. I think that there would be so many amazing people to talk to as well. My gosh, the workshops and seminars are just mind blowing and not all 100% spirituality based either. I’m a little shy of full blown energetic orgasm type stuff. I think I hear too much about it, from the wrong people in my job.

If I can attend, I would be doing so on my own. Flying solo. I have blessings from my gorgeous man ‘to experience what I want and need to experience’ which is pretty damn special. I’m sure if it’s totally kick ass he would be interested to attend in future, also exciting to think about too.

Aside from anything it has generated some good dialogue between us and made me much more motivated to pursue real life information regarding sex and sexuality, rather than staying safely behind my computer screen.

Feminist porn aims to mix pleasure with principle

Pictured are the amazing ladies from the Pleasure Salon I wrote about attending a few posts further down this page.

It is absolutely incredible that this article was posted on the FRONT PAGE of The Age newspaper – a positive, informative and balanced piece about sex positivity, feminist pornography and holy fucking Babs, in the context of Melbourne, Victoria, Australia.

This gives me so much hope that we *can* become a far more sexually progressive and forward thinking society.

Also, my works websites are listed right there in the article! Craziness!





These talks make me laugh, cry and inwardly exclaim – someone breaking down and articulating how my psyche works! What is being said in these talks resonates so strongly and makes me actively want to be a better human, a better woman, a better partner and friend.

I want to be a better me and it is possible to do so.

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