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I quit my job. Or the cooler sounding version, I quit my job in porn.

Wow. It’s really real.

I am looking to move into something very low-key, likely temping doing admin or data entry, at least til the end of the year… I’m actually thinking of dipping a toe into the world of camming, to see how it all works and whether it is viable income. Thoughts?

Definitely going to focus myself on applying for school for next year over the next week and a bit.

Onwards and upwards and looking forward to having much more in the way of creative energy, especially to direct here, I have lots of ideas of things to rant about and photograph.

Woooooop!

This is where I have been focusing for the past whiles… I haven’t felt this excited about pornography since, well, I can’t really remember. Anyways, it’s really fucking good and you should look at it. Like, now.

A Sensate Films and Feck collaboration: Gentleman Handling.



“What we’ve made here, really, is a lovely place to watch moving images of male masturbation. GentlemanHandling attempts to strip the image of male sexual pleasure from its less-than-savoury pornographic contexts and situate it in a style of imagemaking that is honest, attentive, and reverent. In our years of experience in the pornosphere, we’ve found that men have just as much to lose as other genders from the dishonesty and superficiality of mass-produced sexual imagery. So we’ve taken up the project of presenting our contributors in a manner that highlights their human-ness, their individual sexual style. Self-pleasure is a deeply personal thing and is often glossed over or neglected in mainstream sexual media. We’re trying to take steps to change that.”

So this site, booking of shoots, people managing, learning new production/set-up/lighting skills and on occasion creatively collaborating has been a part of my world/job/life for many months now. I have been sitting on the knowledge that this beautiful space would hopefully soon, or rather eventually, come to fruition and here it is. I nearly burst at the seams keeping this secret, that’s for sure.

In super awesome and exciting news, I am also a regular contributor on the Gentleman Handling blog: Hyperballad’s Tangenitals. Please go say hi sometime, I’d very much appreciate it.

I am working with two totally amazing women on GMH, together they came up with the concept of this project and made it happen. They have formed their own company Sensate Films and will continue making Slow Porn til the end of days and sexy-times. What is Slow Porn, you ask?

“The mass-production mentality of the adult industry draws producers into its ‘more, faster!’ mindset and mode of production. This often sacrifices both the quality of the product and the experience of its creation. Our response to this is to slow down. This gives us the time and presence to pay attention to those details that the mainstream so often misses; the quality of a breath, the words in a whisper. It gives our contributors the time to make choices about their representation, and also to take their time, to indulge themselves, to respond to the process of being documented.”

I love the awesome ladies I work for/with, I love the GMH site, I love the gorgeous men we work with and I love the amazing revelations this project continues to uncover in regards to masculinity and male sexuality for me. Every day, every shoot and every contributor holds something new to be learnt.

So for the love of the mans, go have a look at this space and if you like what you see, please join and support the continuation of the smart and sexy porno contained there-in.

This film has been an exceptional help over the last couple of weeks for me.

There are parts of myself, sexually, that have been re-emerging of late and I have been trying to squash and deny. Being interested in sex with people other than my S.O. doesn’t make me a bad partner and lover. It doesn’t mean there is something wrong with me. In fact a lot of what I fantasise about involves my partner and often has an element of him watching or ‘controlling’ the proceedings. Being grown up enough to be able to communicate this desire, articulate how I think it can happen and hopefully pursue it healthily IS the right thing to do.

We had a fantastic conversation about attraction to others, threesomes, sex, sexual adventures and openness to relationships. It was awesome. I aim for these kinds of conversations to continue and that we can work out exactly what we’re comfy with here and now. There are some things I want to explore, but not to the detriment of my partner or our relationship – baby steps.

Dodson and Ross


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So… you may have noticed a banner for the ifeelmyself.com site on the left hand column of this blog.  To say I am a fan of this space would a gross understatement.  You have most likely already watched the above show reel and by the time you’re reading this text may just have an inkling of why I love, love, LOVE ifeelmyself.com.

I not only subscribe to ifm, but I am also a contributor there.  These people are amazing, the process unique and everything you see there is real.

Possibly the only space, well the only one I know of aside from Beautiful Agony, for pornography where the orgasms are 100% real, the ladies for the most part aren’t in the adult industry and when you come in to make a film for IFM it is stressed that they simply want to capture what it is you do, to get off.

There are no exaggerations or embellishments to the intimate moments shown here, just real women having real orgasms and sharing something truly amazing.  The lighting, music, editing, camera angles and general mood is carefully crafted and the films made here are just beautiful watch…  Some of the ‘adventure’ category videos are simply breath taking in their artistry.

Oh and ALL of this is in High Def.  The change over to HD occurred in June, so loads of the archived material is stand definition, but production is always of a high quality.

Okay, I think I’ve gushed enough.  I’m such a groupie!

But honestly check out the showreel I’ve posted and if you think this is a site you’d like to become a member of,  you will receive 10% discount if you join up through the reel or IFM banners on this blog.

Enjoy!


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